A writer is concerned about "loneliness influencers" who show young people embracing solitude online. She argues this trend promotes a passive, "cosy defeatist" way to deal with loneliness, rather than seeking connection or active pursuits.
A writer has expressed concerns about a new online trend. Young people, sometimes called "loneliness influencers," share videos of their solitary lives.
These videos often show quiet evenings at home, focusing on self-care rituals. They might feature bland home settings and simple activities.
The writer notes that spending time alone or feeling friendless is a normal part of life. However, she questions if retreating into a "cosy defeatist" state is the best response.
Instead, she suggests people could seek new connections, like joining clubs or volunteering. They could also pursue active solitary hobbies, such as reading or learning a language.
The main concern is not the loneliness itself, but the idea of passively accepting it. Engaging with the world, even alone, can be more fulfilling.
